About this interview
In a 2009 interview with Ryan Minic of Ryan’s Rock Show, Kill What I Adore shared the highs and lows of life on the road, from brutal desert breakdowns to the camaraderie of touring. The band recounted a particularly grueling moment crossing Nevada in 115-degree heat when their van overheated, leaving them stranded on the roadside. Despite the hardships of constant travel, they expressed deep appreciation for the generosity of strangers and the support they received along the way.
Reflecting on their journey, the band acknowledged the humbling nature of touring. They never expected luxury—just enough gas money to get to the next show. Rather than chasing fame, they focused on staying true to their passion for heavy music and pushing forward, one city at a time. While ego clashes were once common at local shows, they noted that the touring circuit had a different energy—bands looked out for one another, and the scene fostered mutual respect rather than competition.
Balancing relationships while on the road was another challenge. The band admitted that keeping friendships and romantic relationships intact was difficult, especially with months-long tours. They spoke candidly about the struggles of leaving loved ones behind and the strain it placed on personal connections. In a surprising twist, two band members discovered their girlfriends were pregnant while on tour—one receiving the life-changing news via text message while sitting in the tour van.
Now signed to a label, Kill What I Adore reflected on how the music industry had changed for them. While still adjusting to the new structure, they were excited about the opportunities ahead—having their album in stores, working with management, and ramping up promotional efforts. As they looked to the future, their goals remained simple: to have fun, write the heaviest music possible, and keep pushing forward.